The first gift can not be too much, first as a stepping stone, in order to continue to contact in the future, the relationship to rely on the usual accumulation, do much to send much gift, can not be afraid of more, do not rush to do things, to seize the opportunity, do not do unnecessary work, as long as there is confidence that there is no thing that cannot be done, but can not be ambitious. The gift should consider the specific situation and occasion. Generally, when going to a private family banquet, the hostess should bring small gifts, such as fruits, local specialties, etc. If you have children, you can send toys and candy. Invited to the wedding, in addition to art decorations, you can also send flowers and practical items, New Year, Christmas, generally can send calendars, wine, tea, etc. Grasp the time and way of giving gifts Gifts should generally be given face. But sometimes for weddings, you can send them in advance. Greetings, gifts, can be sent to the door or mail. At this time, the gift should be attached with the gift giver's business card, you can also write a congratulatory message, packed in a similar size envelope, the envelope indicates the name of the recipient, affixed to the top of the gift packaging. Usually, it is not appropriate to give a gift in public to only one person in a group. Because the recipients will feel that they are being bribed and fooled, and will make those who have not received the gift feel that they are being neglected and despised. Gifts to close people should also not be done in public to avoid giving the public the impression that your close relationship is entirely supported by material things. Only gifts that express special feelings should be given in public. Because the public has become a witness to your true friendship. Such as a special souvenir. When giving gifts, pay attention to your attitude, actions and words. Peaceful and friendly, generous actions accompanied by polite language expression, is the recipient is happy to accept. The practice of quietly placing the gift under the table or in a corner of the room as a thief will not only fail to achieve the purpose of the gift, but even get the opposite. In the general custom of our country, when giving gifts, they are always too modest to say: Bo gift! My small gift! Only a little or very sorry... This is best avoided. Of course, if at the time of the gift, an almost proud tone says: This is a very valuable thing! It doesn't fit either. When introducing the gift given, it should be emphasized that it is the goodwill and friendship that it has for the recipient, rather than emphasizing the actual value of the gift, otherwise, it will fall into the point of valuing gifts and light justice, and even make the other party feel like accepting bribes. It is one of the norms of social etiquette to take into account customs and customs, and the choice of gifts should also meet the requirements of this norm. The choice of gifts should be treated differently for different recipients. Generally speaking, for the poor, it is better to benefit; To the rich, ingenuity is better; For lovers, lovers, lovers, souvenir is best; To friends, fun is best; For the elderly, practical is the best; For children, it is better to enlighten the novel; For foreign guests, characteristics are preferred. The problem of how to give gifts is like the management of "management without a formula", there is no fixed routine, only can learn from, do not imitate. We can generally grasp the following principles: First, the purpose of not sending, is to contact feelings, thank you or next year's salary promotion, and so on, must be clear. Second, the contents of the gift is best to its good, so that the boss can see at a glance that you have spent thought, rather than just carrying a few packets of snacks. In the usual communication, know the leader in a certain aspect of the preferences, you can vote for their good, send some small gifts. You can also send your favorite to share with the leader. There are some gifts are more universal, such as their own carefully crafted small things, such as cards, calligraphy and painting and so on. The most important thing to deepen the relationship is to let the other person feel your mind, and the things that have been spent are the most easily moved. In fact, deepen feelings and please are two kinds of things, why do you want to ask the boss's good, is not to deepen feelings? When your feelings are sincere and good, they are no longer superficial "pleasing", but "deepening" the feelings. Third, the gift should not be too expensive. Gift light affection heavy, that is to say, in order to deepen feelings and send gifts, not in the gift value, but in this friendship. Gift giving must master the principle of avoiding taboos.
